Easier

She grew up become a very "yes man" person because the only thing you know is to said no to others
She grew up become so ignorant because you chose to be so care to little things that aren't so important
She grew up to be someone that put everyone's needs above hers because you full of yourself and never considering the others
She grew up to be someone that believe in everything until people sometimes, maybe use that against her because you took everything, anything for granted

She grew up to be someone that can't hurt somebody even though she wanted to, because you shot people at their head

She grew up to be real silent about her feeling towards everyone because your mind speaks too loud, so is your lips

They grew up to be some spoiled little brats because you never let them man up and face their things

And, she realize, she grow up to trust anyone, everyone and always be positive because someone taught her to be negative and not to believe in anything

She learned her lesson well.
But, Sometimes you just want to blame somebody for your own damages. It's easier that way.